The narcissistic pervert has, and it is certain, multiple facets. What are they, and what does it involve? Here are 10 facets of the narcissistic pervert to help you recognize him.
1 – The narcissistic pervert is a seducer
He is an outstanding seducer, an expert in the field. He grasps his victim’s desires and illustrates them in a perfectly honed acting style, suggesting that he is the ideal intermediary towards happiness. He uses many techniques to give his victim what he wants to see. He plays Prince Charming, the ideal man, the one who meets all expectations.
2 – The narcissistic pervert is a manipulator
The narcissistic pervert is a professional in manipulation. He uses all the stratagems in his possession to achieve his ends. He has no limits. He goes as far as instrumentalizing his victim or his entourage, whom he sees as stepping stones to his success. He seduces, lies, misleads, blows hot and cold to exert a hold on anyone who gets in his way.
3 – The narcissistic pervert is a liar
For the structurally accomplished narcissistic pervert, lying is commonplace. He uses it to manipulate, deceive and make his victim feel guilty. He can thus keep her under his control, and destroy her slowly. The lie is for him a well-tried manipulation trap which he uses subtly on a daily basis. Everything is set up so that his victim is confused, and that she gets lost in his speech.
4 – The narcissistic pervert is an egomaniac
The narcissistic pervert always makes everything about himself. They divert any situation, from the most banal to the most grandiose, towards themselves. He has a visceral need for admiration and adoration. The polymorphous pervert seeks at all costs to exist in a brilliant way whatever the end and the means. He is the best, the one who knows everything and thanks to whom everything is possible.
5 – The narcissistic pervert is a competitor
The narcissistic pervert always makes everything about him. They divert any situation, from the most banal to the most grandiose, towards themselves. He has a visceral need for admiration and adoration. The polymorphous pervert seeks at all costs to exist in a brilliant way whatever the end and the means. He is the best, the one who knows everything and thanks to whom everything is possible.
6 – The narcissistic pervert is flamboyant
A narcissistic pervert rarely goes unnoticed. He usually has a well-groomed appearance (fashionable clothes, impeccable haircut) and also owns material goods that he likes to put on the front of the stage (telephone, car…). He is the “perfect man”, the ideal man. He likes to put himself on stage and show through his appearance and his acquisitions, a spectacular and neat grandeur, sometimes exuberant.
7 – The narcissistic pervert is discreet
At the same time, the narcissistic pervert also advances, despite everything, masked. He hides behind masks, and sometimes an apparent simplicity. Indeed, to better advance and keep his victim under his control in order to better destroy him, his strategy is not only to isolate him, but especially not to make any waves. Discretion is therefore a good omen, and the pervert knows how to withdraw when necessary.
8 – The narcissistic pervert is an actor
The narcissistic pervert is also an expert in this field. He is in a permanent acting game. He shows what he wants to show, when he wants to show it. The narcissistic pervert also plays a double game. On the one hand, he is a charming and ideal man in society, and on the other hand, he is a man whose psychological violence exceeds the imaginable. He doesn’t let anything show on the outside, and very often only his victim sees these two faces. Finally, the narcissistic pervert can switch from one emotion to another in a fraction of a second, leaving his victim in disarray and confusion.
9 – The narcissistic pervert is cold
The narcissistic pervert is devoid of empathy. He is without affect, despite what he sometimes lets you think. He is a person of unmatched coldness. Indeed, the narcissistic pervert is devoid of any affect, indifferent to the suffering or emotions of others. He is however capable of showing emotions (joy, sadness, empathy) but these are purely superficial.
10 – The narcissistic pervert is into victimization
This is one of the facets of the narcissistic pervert: victimization. He uses this scapegoat strategy for the purpose of total manipulation. He claims his role of victim in the story: nothing is ever his fault. The narcissistic pervert does not assume anything, he always blames the other. He categorically refuses to perceive his faults, and therefore to assume his actions. Victimizing himself is a way for him to get rid of his guilt and to push the other person further and further into a spiral of control and manipulation, the rules of which he knows perfectly.